BEWARE of abusive older men who specifically target…

BEWARE of abusive older men who specifically target young women to date.

A few thoughts as to why young women (35 and under) should be wary of dating men who are 10 years (or more) older than they are – specifically due to such men often being physically and/or psychologically abusive. Oftentimes abusive men seek out naive and inexperienced targets…and though a young woman may be intelligent and mature – by default she lacks the life experience of someone (male or female) who is 10 years her senior (if not older).

Over the years I’ve experienced my fair share…

Over the years I’ve experienced my fair share of relationships… so I’ve learned a lot about myself, and men.

Yesterday an excellent primer (aka blueprint) came to my attention from www.FreedomProgramme.co.uk (via a friend of mine on social media) as to how to differentiate an abusive man from a psychologically healthy and loving man. The material I read impressed me quite a bit, so I decided to put together the video below. Hopefully women who need to stumble upon the material I outline will find it (as my perspective and life path would have been far different had I read this material in my early 20s – I don’t regret my life though…as I believe that everything is as it’s meant to be).

BEAUTANITY Today’s politics surrounding Kavanaugh & Trump Alexandra…

BEAUTANITY: Today’s politics surrounding Kavanaugh & Trump. Alexandra Mayers LIVE
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IDdoLZwRUN8

Alexandra Mayers shares her thoughts in regards to the women’s civil right’s situation (in regards to sexual misconduct and sexual assault) revolving around Brett Kavanaugh, the Donald Trump situation, American white women and politics.

Alexandra explains that the political atmosphere involving white women’s civil rights doesn’t directly alter her personal reality considering that she’s been dealing with the equivalent of such themes via the Pornwikileaks racist, homophobic and misogynistic hate crime for over 7 years (a situation which no one helped her in regards to – quite possibly due to her being a Black woman and an ex / retired sexworker).

Alexandra shares that her recent musical song release “Beautanity” is a culmination (in part) of her personal experiences, that of other sex workers and today’s political climate . She concludes this podcast by questioning if today’s public outcry against men such as Trump and Kavanaugh is in actuality only due to American white women (who are not sex workers, adult entertainers or pornstars) suddenly awakening to the reality that White men (many who are their sons, brothers and fathers) now view them on the same tier as Black women. From Alexandra’s perspective white women who are sex workers (such as Alana Evans and Ruby – the leaders of the Adult Performers Actor’s Guild) have felt the pain (akin to that of Black women) of being cast aside (and ignored) by society, in regards to sexual assault, for a long time.

Alexandra Mayers suggests that white women who are mothers think a bit more deeply in regards to raising their children – because the “old white men” who are being blamed today for today’s political climate didn’t appear out of no where…their mothers are often complicit white women (such as what Melania, Ivanka and Ivana Trump appear to be) who are wiling to enable “white male privilege” for their sons, while inadvertently allowing such privilege to ENSLAVE their daughters.

Recent podcasts revolving around politics from Alexandra Mayers – Just Some Thoughts

Attention WOMEN: Trump supporters and voters are UNDATEABLE and dangerous. Avoid them if you care about your civil rights and safety (in regards to rape)



Statistics show the majority of rapists in America are white males – is Michael Avenatti exposing an institution of white males enabling their peers to continue crimes against American women?


How Randazza Legal group is using pornographers, pornwikileaks & white supremacists to stifle the civil rights of & encourage sexual assault against white American women


A mentality of it being “OK” for white males to abuse Black women and women of color is being cultivated by evil men linked to pornography who happen to be white males



Women of Earth (especially mainstream Hollywood actresses and pornstars), you are clueless as to how beautiful you actually are. RAISE YOUR STANDARDS



The truth of the RACISM, GREED & HYPOCRISY of anti-porn activists and the agenda of installing the element of “regret” within pornstars who are White Women – there IS a political agenda behind it



7 pornography industry independent investigative bloggers and journalists who have been strategically silenced

LGBT couples would make good adoptive parents for…

LGBT couples would make good adoptive parents for the abused children of pornstars & sex workers
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mhz0C_eSFik
Alexandra Mayers shares her thoughts via “The Story of Tommy and Jennifer” as to how though there are many sex workers, pornstars and adult performers who are good parents – there’s a flip side to that coin… many children of sex workers, pornstars and adult performers are extensively abused, neglected, abandoned and at times even sold into slavery (sex trafficked as children).
Alexandra Mayers feels that many healthy, sane and loving couples in the LGBT (LGBTQ) community would be excellent adoptive parents for such children (who are taken from their abusive parents by Child Protective Services and put into the foster care system) .

https://www.livescience.com/28079-why-gay-parents-are-awesome.html

The story of “Tommy and Jennifer” is based on real people, real events and is the story of the parents of real children (who as of current – in Alexandra Mayers’ opinion) are in danger.

2018 Thoughts on Shelley Lubben I am not…

2018 Thoughts on Shelley Lubben. I am not against Pornography – I am anti-abuse and anti-organized crime.

Avoiding Pimps – Tip #5 – an explanation of a certain mind game men (not just pimps) like to play on the women they date or target

Colorism versus Racism, How child abuse is linked to sex workers & the Black wage gap in Porn

Alexandra Mayers LIVE – Friday – discussion on colorism versus racism, the relationship between child abuse and the adult entertainment industry, and lastly, the pay / wage gap Black female performers experience in the pornographic industry.
Towards the end of the webcast, Alexandra Mayers (formerly known as pornstar Monica Foster) shares her thoughts on the recent death of Mercedes Grabowski (known towards the final years of her life as pornstar August Ames – a fictitious character), how her family life & alleged childhood molestation by her Grandfather may have tied into her death, the fictitious “gay mafia” which is unjustifiably being blamed for her death (male performer Jaxton Wheeler specifically) and why the element of cyber bullying may be a convenient deflector for those in Mercedes’ life who didn’t properly care for her.

Important links:
Colorism – definition: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Discrimination_based_on_skin_color

Black wage Gap in Hollywood – Mo’nique and Jessica Chastain
https://www.salon.com/2018/01/22/pay-monique-netflix/

How Jessica Chastain helped Octavia Spencer get equal pay was great, and sadly necessary
https://www.salon.com/2018/01/25/how-jessica-chastain-helped-octavia-spencer-get-equal-pay-was-great-and-sadly-necessary/

Jaxton Wheeler interview
http://www.newsweek.com/august-ames-dead-suicide-jaxton-wheeler-744355

According to Jaxton Wheeler, Mercedes Grabowski aka August Ames was dead for 3 hours prior to him posting the inappropriate tweet about a cyanide pill: https://twitter.com/AlexMayersLIVE/status/955494226330050560

A few reasons why pornstars and women in general shouldn’t date men in or attached to the pornography industry. Narcissism & Murder.

I decided to re-post these thoughts from my twitter feed @AlexMayersLIVE because these points are important for women (be they a pornstar or not) to be aware of:

I highly suggest that you not date or have children with any man in or attached to the pornography industry. They are all abusive, mentally ill, narcissists who are often stalkers & criminals. Find a NORMAL man who actually loves you (who is NOT attached to the pornography industry).

Men attached to the porn industry are abusive narcissists completely incapable of maintaining a long term relationship or remaining faithful. After they have kids they realize having a family isn’t all fun & games. They get bored & try to reconnect with their exes. Then when the exes reject them they stalk their exes. This is a pattern that I have witnessed, experienced as an ex porntar and have received multiple reports (over the years) of from other women who are ex pornstars.

The only reason I continue to tweet, blog and write about some of these things is so that in the event I’m murdered, investigators have a record as to exactly who was fixated on me, who has a history of wishing death upon me & who needs to either get life in jail or the death penalty.

One of the primary reasons you shouldn’t marry or have children with a man attached to the porn industry is because a common scam they run is to take out a large life insurance policy on you the second you marry them. Sometimes they do the same for any children they have…

Then they find a way to kill you. Generally they make it look like an accident (making the death appear to be an OD is the most common method). The death is rarely questioned because law enforcement typically doesn’t investigate too far into the death of sex workers.

Men attached to the porn industry generally get away with marrying, killing & collecting life insurance on women who either are not close to their family or have no family. They especially prefer a target who is from a foreign country.

I believe one of my primary stalkers has the plan to make his target look like she drowned while they were out on his boat. He’s been setting the stage for a while now. She has no friends, no family, she’s a sex worker & she’s foreign.

I’ve noticed that a high number of pornographers have boats. Nowadays I feel it’s primarily because lakes and the ocean are the best places to dispose of dead bodies or set the stage for “accidental deaths” of their victims who aren’t known to be drug users & wouldn’t likely OD.

I think these psycho narcissist men in the porn industry are behind many of the latest deaths of young pornstars because there’s so many ways to make money off their deaths… Increased sales of their porn (after a pornstar dies, there’s a surge in the public’s interest and consequently the sales of her adult content) , life insurance collections, GoFundMe donation collections for “funeral expenses”, etc… I hate to say it, but many men in the porn industry have realized that young pornstars today are often worth more dead than alive. It’s a scary thought and exactly why no woman should ever date, marry or even spend time alone with a man in the porn industry.

 

 

https www youtube com watch v=NFBD55vg7Ew In part…

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NFBD55vg7Ew

In part one of the May 12th broadcast of Alexandra Mayers LIVE, Alexandra shares about why donating to the Las Vegas Rescue Mission is a good idea considering how many adult entertainers who may travel to Las Vegas to work in porn, may find themselves homeless upon their decision to leave the industry.

In addition, Alexandra Mayers shares her views about the multitudes of abusive men in the porn industry and how (in her opinion) where websites such as pornwikileaks failed is due to the fact that such sites (which are designed to “mark” the men and women who fall prey to the porn industry) are built, operated and designed by abusive men (and sometimes women) who are completely incapable of maintaining healthy relationships (the man who designed the blue print to pornwikileaks is one of the most abusive men on the planet).

Bottom line – the porn industry’s predatory power players primarily prey upon targets they believe can be easily abused (psychologically, spiritually and physically).