If I could put the content of this…

If I could put the content of this video into every Black woman’s mind – I would. Due to my unique life experience I’ve seen more and dealt with far more than most (and likely in a much harsher way than most). Looking back on my dating life when I was in my 20’s and even 30’s, ignorance truly was bliss.

Regardless, I’m glad I took a few journeys (both physically and online) over the years (especially in 2020 and this year 2021). I truly am a “truth seeker”, which is why I warn you (whoever you may be reading this) – be careful should you decide to seek out the truth, because once you learn something, you can’t UN-LEARN it.

Chapter 7 of Shelley Lubben’s book about the…

Chapter 7 of Shelley Lubben’s book about the pornography industry

Alexandra Mayers reads a portion of, reviews and provides commentary on Chapter Seven of the book “Truth Behind The Fantasy of Porn – The Greatest Illusion on Earth” – written by the recently deceased anti porn activist, Christian and mother Shelley Lubben.

In this commentary, as Alexandra shares a portion of Chapter Seven, she explains how the story Shelley tells about an abusive man she dated (who turned out to be a violent stalker) is a fairly common situation that sex workers (pornstars, escorts and exotic dancers) often find themselves in. In addition Alexandra explains how serial abusers often target sex workers due to law enforcement (and the judicial system) looking down upon sex workers (whether that be the victim’s current OR past occupation).

BEWARE of abusive older men who specifically target…

BEWARE of abusive older men who specifically target young women to date.

A few thoughts as to why young women (35 and under) should be wary of dating men who are 10 years (or more) older than they are – specifically due to such men often being physically and/or psychologically abusive. Oftentimes abusive men seek out naive and inexperienced targets…and though a young woman may be intelligent and mature – by default she lacks the life experience of someone (male or female) who is 10 years her senior (if not older).

Recent podcasts revolving around politics from Alexandra Mayers – Just Some Thoughts

Attention WOMEN: Trump supporters and voters are UNDATEABLE and dangerous. Avoid them if you care about your civil rights and safety (in regards to rape)



Statistics show the majority of rapists in America are white males – is Michael Avenatti exposing an institution of white males enabling their peers to continue crimes against American women?


How Randazza Legal group is using pornographers, pornwikileaks & white supremacists to stifle the civil rights of & encourage sexual assault against white American women


A mentality of it being “OK” for white males to abuse Black women and women of color is being cultivated by evil men linked to pornography who happen to be white males



Women of Earth (especially mainstream Hollywood actresses and pornstars), you are clueless as to how beautiful you actually are. RAISE YOUR STANDARDS



The truth of the RACISM, GREED & HYPOCRISY of anti-porn activists and the agenda of installing the element of “regret” within pornstars who are White Women – there IS a political agenda behind it



7 pornography industry independent investigative bloggers and journalists who have been strategically silenced

2018 Thoughts on Shelley Lubben I am not…

2018 Thoughts on Shelley Lubben. I am not against Pornography – I am anti-abuse and anti-organized crime.

Avoiding Pimps – Tip #5 – an explanation of a certain mind game men (not just pimps) like to play on the women they date or target

Avoiding Pimps yet another ongoing series by Alexandra…

Avoiding Pimps – yet another ongoing series by Alexandra Mayers about what the relatively naive young men and women of the world should look for when dating to avoid being sex trafficked.


The full playlist can be found here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrqNBfS_15tC7I6zDBbzuns0VNnpxYalI

How technology & social media revolutionized how PIMPS operate & why FOSTA is important



Alexandra Mayers explains how technology (namely websites and social media) revolutionized how pimps (sex traffickers) recruit new clients, operate their prostitution rings and why such activity likely led to FOSTA (Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act of 2017) legislation being passed.

Alexandra shares how she’s learned through her various communications with women in the tech industry, they have a difficult time forming romantic relationships with their male peers due to the males being conditioned by prostitution, escorting and sugarbaby websites essentially delivering them a woman (“on demand style”) they can pay for their time.

Men in the tech industry as of current are a prime target for pimps as they tend to be well paying clients for their product (prostitutes who often are also pornstars). Alexandra shares a bit of history in this video in regards to who the major client bases of prostitutes have been over the years (basically anyone attached to the energy industry or the industries that run our world – oil, technology, political vehicals, automotive, etc). Alexandra shares her concern
about porn valley pimps spreading their mentality (via the prostitutes that are pimped and hate crime websites such as Pornwikileaks) of racism, misogyny & homophobia to their client base.

Alexandra also explains how the porn industry mantra being promoted as of current of “It’s my body it’s my choice” could easily lead to complete racial segration of “white” porn from “Black” porn.

As of current pending legislation such as SESTA (Senate Bill 1693 which goes to the floor Monday 3/12) will work in conjunction with FOSTA to further curb the current epidemic of the action of being able to order a woman for sexual services over the internet “on demand” style.

It is suggested that you watch Alexandra Mayers’ review of a porn movie (which is ironically a sort of anti-porn movie) called “The Hooker Experience”. The movie essentially outlines the blueprint of how pimps in today’s internet age traffic women.
part 1: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=35gms2EbsLw
part 2: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yjc47Gpm4O0

Alexandra also shares a warning about what to look for in a true predator. Often times the best predators wear a very unassuming mask (sometimes that of the “nerd” or “geek”) – never let that fool you.

Alexandra Mayers LIVE Friday Happy Valentines day https…

Alexandra Mayers LIVE – Friday – Happy Valentines day

Alexandra Mayers LIVE – a brief talk on how pornstars should be careful in regards to their exes (who may own catalogs of their past adult content) possibly wanting them to die so that the adult content they were featured in gains popularity (which translates to more sales).

Alexandra also wishes everyone a Happy Valentines day and offers a few Valentine’s day survival and dating tips.